Often we hear about women who can't cook, don't clean, dress themselves poorly, and follow celebrities' lives rather than read. We then ask what good would those women be in a long -term relationship. And rightly so. Such a women would be useless in running a house and raising children.
But what about what you offer?
Many guys seem to come to the manosphere with the intent of finding a wife. What do you guys offer a relationship? Do you have a high paying job? Can you cook? Are you fashionable? Can you fix things around the house? Can you fix your car? Do you know how to maintain a house's landscaping?
Just something to think about.
Thanks, as if I wasn't insecure enough.
ReplyDeleteIt wasn't meant as an insult. All of us just need to improve ourselves.
Delete...and then not give yourselves away to unworthy women.
DeleteThere's also a lot of "Why bother?" in the 'sphere, and I think it's one of the most important questions a man can ask himself. What are the rewards you hope for, and what are the rewards you will get anyway, even if you don't attain what you most want?
I did that the first time I got married, the unworthy woman part. Broke my heart and took me to cleaners and used my children as emotional blackmail for over a decade. Now you know why I am cranky.
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ReplyDeleteOne problem I have is that I want to approach more girls. But I go out, see what passes for girls and think, "these are my options?" I have no desire to talk to those "girls" and get out of the habit of doing so.
Find your self a real woman if you can, old fashioned type. Most today I find just want other women or guys who look and act like women. Its not easy, they are a dying breed, like the buffalo of the great plains.
DeleteWhere would you suggest that I look?
DeleteThats the hard part, I did not find my current missus until I gave up and stopped looking, found her right under my nose. Sorry I can't help you there, just remember though, ALL women are bat shit crazy, it just depends to what extreme. The way the culture is now a days though, I would get use to being a monk and cold showers. When you get to that point, they seem to have a hidden super power that senses it, and they find you. Happy non hunting.
Deletei think the hardest thing is when you get past a certain age it seems hopeless, part of the reason all women are bat shit crazy is because by the time you likely get to them they are in their mid to late 20's if not 30 so you are dealing with all the bs they had been put through either by daddy or exbf's.
ReplyDeletemy 2 best friends (other than my wife) are both close to getting married and while we are all 30 both their gf's are both less than 23yo. i met my wife before i turned 20 so the baggage was limited.
i would recommend looking for women who do the activities that you already like, could always walk around a cabela's looking for some hotties.
Thanks for the advice.
DeleteAs a former Cabela's employee I would say that the only good looking girls are there with their boyfriends.
I offer competence, confidence, charisma, and dominance. What more do the dames need?
ReplyDeleteThat might be all that is necessary.
DeleteI was thinking about the guys who [foolishly] want to get married and who [rightly] complain about the lack of quality of girls these days.